Important Elements in a Femdom Strap-On Video
Let me share with you the opening 30 seconds of Gentleman Video’s Boss Bitches #17: Reaming and Screaming.
This opening leaves me flat because the man really wants it. Also, what’s up with the zebra cock? We’ve got one of our own, and we’ve talked about it on past Podcasts. Those black strips are where the latex has absorbed black ink from other surfaces it has been in touch with like leather. When your cheap $20 latex dildo has gotten that many strips, it’s probably time to buy a new one.
Now, compare that to a similar scene from Boss Bitches #8: Ass Destroyers.
The idea that the woman is imposing her will to make her man submit is, for me, the key to strap-on porn and, without that element, I just find the video unwatchable. The contest of wills featured out pretty vividly in the video we released on Xhamster, and it got many positive reviews. It also got a handful of negative reviews, and I always try to be attentive to it to see if I can find areas where future videos could be improved. Here’s what one detractor wrote:
Filming sucked. Need a new camera.
MIR — Is always great! So enjoyed it.
P — Ahhh…Not so much. Seemed just…I don’t know…out of it. In all honesty — brought the whole scene…DOOOOWN! Made it robotic. Not fun or hot. Being honest
I suppose I was a bit robotic in some scenes, but I think it was this element that caused a number of Xhamster commentaries to say I was being raped- which a lot of people found hot. There comes a point in submission where you just, well, lay back and take it and Mistress Roulette did an excellent job of getting me to that point in that video.
I’m not sure how to be more animated and fun without sacrificing the contest of wills that, for me, if the real heart and soul of these scenes.
